My Neville Goddard▲-1▼
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Sp manifestation - now 5th y
I managed contact after 2y of nc. But that’s 3y ago now, so +5y now. He writes every 3m approx sometimes less. He initiates but then nothing, says he ‘cant control himself around me, scared to meet. We met on Tinder, he ghosted me but then took me in and ghosted. He has many good sides though. Im strangely in love with him but it drains me. Should l give up? I tried all methods and stick to it every day
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Hope for advice
Have you considered both the assumptions you hold about him AND what assumptions you believe he has about himself and you? For example, an assumption of his confidence in himself or an assumption of him enjoying his communications with you. This corrects for negatives that he feeds himself without you knowing. Also, due to the pattern of ghosting and the length of time you've spent so far, you'll need to make sure that your pattern recognition and brain's natural default prediction of ghosting is dissolved. Have you considered trying to manifest the afterglow of a successful in-person meeting with him? It's a smaller step that we'd normally think of as in the middle of the bridge, but it seems that hesitance was significant enough of a block for you to mention.